부부간 상호지각의 일치도와 결혼만족간의 관계 = The Relationships of a Married Couple's Perception Congruence to Marital Satisfaction

다국어 초록 (Multilingual Abstract)

The present study purports to investigate the relationships between several indices of perception congruence and marital satisfaction in married couples. Specifically it was carried out to find whether indices of perception congruence depend on marriage periods, domains, husbands and wives' beliefs and finally whether they are related to martial satisfaction. Data was collected from 155 married couples in Masan and Changwon. They did respond on prepared questionnaire to find out perceptions of the self and his(her) spouse on personalities and beliefs of marriage. Perception about personalities was measured in five domains based on Big 5 personality traits and perception about beliefs of marriage in four domains. The major results are followed： First, there was no meaningful relations between couple's marriage periods and all indices of their perception congruence. Second, in personalities couple's understanding of his(her) spouse was greater than actual and assumed similarity. In beliefs of marriage, assumed similarity that a spouse has the same beliefs of marriage was greater than other measures of perception congruence. Last, the effect on measures of perception congruence on marital satisfaction was different in personalities and beliefs of marriage. In personalities, the greater husband's assumed similarity and wife's understanding were, the greater their marital satisfaction was. In beliefs of marriage, However, the greater actual and assumed similarity of husband was, the greater the his marital satisfaction was. While the greater the wife's assumed similarity was, the greater her marital satisfaction was.

국문 초록 (Abstract)

본 연구에서는 부부간 성격과 결혼가치관의 유사성과 상대방에 대한 이해 크기가 결혼만족과 관련되는지를 알아보았다. 또한 부부간 유사성과 이해 크기가 결혼 기간에 따라 달라지는지, 성격과 결혼가치관 영역별로 그것들이 차이가 있는지, 남편과 부인의 경우 다른지 등도 살펴보았다. 이를 위해 부부 155쌍의 대상으로 각각에게 자신과 배우자의 성격과 결혼가치관에 대한 지각을 알아보았다. 성격 지각의 경우는 5요인 성격이론에 근거하여, 결혼가치관 지각의 경우는 Acitelli 등(2001)의 연구를 참조한 4 영역에서 부부의 자기지각과 배우자 지각을 측정하였다. 부부간 상호지각의 일치도는 실제유사성(남편-부인 자기지각의 일치도), 가정된 유사성(자기지각과 상대방지각의 일치도), 이해(상대방에 대한 지각과 상대방의 자기지각의 일치도)의 세 가지로 구분하였다. 주요 결과는 첫째, 성격 영역에서는 실제 및 가정된 유사성보다 상대방에 대한 이해의 크기가 더 컸으며, 결혼가치관 영역에서는 가정된 유사성의 크기가 다른 일치도보다 더 크게 나타났다. 둘째, 기간은 모든 부부간 상호지각의 일치도 크기와 유의한 관계가 없었다. 셋째, 성격의 경우 남편의 가정된 유사성이 높을수록, 부인의 남편에 대한 이해가 클수록, 부부 모두의 결혼만족이 높았다. 그러나 결혼가치관의 경우 남편은 실제유사성과 부인에 대한 가정된 유사성이 높을수록, 결혼만족이 높은 반면, 부인은 남편에 대한 가정된 유사성이 높을수록, 결혼만족이 높았다.

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