한국 부모의 정서발달에 대한 신념과 이에 따른 정서 관련 양육 행동 = Korean Parent's Belief about Children's Emotion and Emotion related Parenting

다국어 초록 (Multilingual Abstract)

The present study is designed to investigate Korean Parents’ beliefs about children’s emotions and their relationship to parents’ emotion-related parenting behavior. To these ends, both parents completed questionnaires regarding parental beliefs about feelings, parents’ own emotional expression, coping strategies for children’s negative emotion expression, and emotion talk. Our results showed that Korean parents’ beliefs about children’s emotions include beliefs about emotional language, developmental readiness, emotional bonding, and emotion expression. Beliefs about emotional bonding are the highest, and gender (mother vs. father) differences are the largest in terms of beliefs about emotion expression. Our results also revealed gender differences in the expression of positive and intimate emotions and the frequency of emotion talk with their children. Finally, we found a significant relationship between Korean parents’ beliefs about children’s emotions and their parenting behavior in both parents.

국문 초록 (Abstract)

본 연구는 한국 부모의 아동 정서에 대한 신념과 양육 행동을 확인하고 이들 간의 관련성을 알아보기 위한 것이다. 이를 위하여 학령 전기 아동의 어머니와 아버지를 대상으로 부모의 정서 관련 신념 척도 (PBAF:Dunsmore & Karn, 2001)와 정서 표현 척도(EEQ: King & Emmons, 1990), 아동의 부정적 정서에 대한 부모의 반응 척도(CCNES :Eisenberg & Fabes, 1994)와 정서 이야기 수준을 측정하여 그 관련성을 살펴보았으며 그 결과는 다음과 같다. 먼저 한국 부모의 아동 정서 관련 신념은 정서언어, 발달적 준비성, 정서적 유대, 정서 표현에 대한 신념의 네 가지 요인이 있음을 확인하였다. 이 중 한국 부모는 정서적 유대에 대해 가장 높은 신념을 지니는 것으로 나타났고 부모간의 차이가 가장 크게 나타난 영역은 정서 표현에 대한 신념이었다. 정서 관련 양육 행동 중에서도 정서 표현, 특히 긍정 정서 표현과 친밀감의 표현, 정서 이야기 수준에서 부모간의 차이가 유의미하게 나타났다. 마지막으로 아동 정서에 대한 신념과 어머니, 아버지의 양육 행동과 관련성을 살펴 본 결과, 정서언어와 정서 표현에 대한 신념은 지지적인 정서 양육과 높은 관련을 맺었으며 정서적 유대에 대한 신념은 지지적인 정서 양육 뿐 아니라 부정정서 표현이나 최소화 같은 비지지적 양육 행동과도 관련을 맺는 것으로 나타났다.

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