This study is focused on the adaptation of migrant women who married to Korean men. The aim of this study is to survey and research their actual living conditions in Korea. I referred to established theories and interviewed many migrant women indepthl...
This study is focused on the adaptation of migrant women who married to Korean men. The aim of this study is to survey and research their actual living conditions in Korea. I referred to established theories and interviewed many migrant women indepthly to achieve the goal.
Theoretical survey was performed by checking the documents about theoretical background of migration and history of international marriage. International marriage is directly related to capitalistic system and economic interests. Theoretical survey has included globalization of capitalism, womanization of migration, international marriage market.
Indepth interview emphasized on their livelihood and cultural difference. Key point was how successfully can they adapt to Korean society. To achieve this goal, I checked their request and need. These can be classified as 1) process of international marriage and economic concern, 2) family relationship and upbringing of children, 3) cultural conflict and their expectation to Korean society, 4) their future dream and hope.
Interviewees were selected and chosen by three different ways - personal introduction, religious organizations and agencies of international marriage. Korean-Chinese were mainly selected by personal introduction whereas Japanese and Philippine women were chosen through religious organizations. And Cambodian women were introduced by marriage agencies. They marry to Korean men for 'economic reason'(50%) and 'religious reason'.(40%)
Second marriage, which is quite peculiar to international marriage, was only 10% among our interviewees. Age gap between husband and wife was averaged by 11 years higher by husband.. And it was over 15 years among 50% of the couples. Age gap was even higher among the couples arranged by marriage agencies.
In case of children-upbringing, the mothers who have children of preschool age expressed their difficulties for fostering cost and lack of babysitter. The mothers who have schoolchildren complained unanimously about communication problem, cost of private tuition, poor progress of learning in the school. 50% of them pointed out alienation from Korean students, discrimination from teachers. Marriage migrant mothers are afraid that their children will be frustrated and eventually dropped out of Korean society.
They strongly complained about discrimination by Koreans due to cultural conflict. They need encouragement and support from Koreans but 90% of them feel social discrimination which make them very nervous. This kind of negative feeling and attitude will affect their offsprings. Marriage migrant women are eager to learn Korean language to find jobs to improve their living standard. Cambodian women, especially expressed strong willingness to make money to buy a house their parental home.
They start their marital life with the hope and dream that their family will be happy with the money they can make in Korea. Also they hope they can help their native home. They are trying to realize their dream in Korea.
Marriage migrant women do not have weapon to build up social network, they also did not have social and psychological assistance from anybody when they had settled in Korea. So it takes much longer time for them to settle down in Korea. They live their life in Korea as housewives, daughters-in-law, and mothers. Family relationship is very complicated in Korea, so it will be triple burden for them.
Marriage migrant women are the people who want to live in Korea as Korean wherever they came from. Therefore it is our duty and responsibility to make them independent Korean both socially and economically. We have to try to understand their circumstances. It will be necessary for government to provide education program for family members, especially for husband to understand culture, language, life style of migrant women's native country.
In conclusion, most importantly, I assume that we have to change our attitude to migrant women. We have to encourage them to be true Korean citizen, not to discriminate them as stranger. They are citizens of our country so as their children.